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Should I Move On?”“I’d Rather Watch British Period Dramas Than Watch My Husband’s Granddaughter”“My Boyfriend Won’t Allow My Grandkids In Our Home”“How Should I Ask My Daughter and Her Boyfriend About Their Marriage Plans?”Quickies: “My Boyfriend Isn’t Ready to Be My Kid’s Dad”“Should We Keep Living Together Even Though We Broke Up?”“Oops, I Invited My Boyfriend to Move in with Me, But I Made a Mistake”“My Mentally Ill Friend is Off His Meds and I Want to Block Him”“We’re the Only Same-Sex Couple in our Area and I Feel Self-Conscious”“My Boyfriend Still Financially Supports His Ex-Wife”“He Ghosted Me After I Got Mad He’s Still on Dating Apps”“My Boyfriend’s Mother Is Interfering in Our Relationship”“My Kids’ Dad is in Jail and I Don’t Want Him in Their Life”“My Partner’s Grown Nephew Lives With Us Rent-Free and I’m Sick of It”“My Partner Can’t Travel As Much as I Like. Should We Break Up?”“We Broke Up Because He Wanted Kids, But Now He Says He Can Live Without Them”“My Boyfriend Won’t Share His Food With Me!”Six Words to Describe the State of Your Love LifeQuickies: “My Boyfriend Has Been Sending Love Messages to His Ex”“I Want to Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Be My Kids’ Stepdad”“My Family Is Refusing to Attend My Wedding”“I’m So Jealous Of How Lucky My Friend Is”How Did You Know You’d Found “The One”?“My Family Says They’ll Disown and Shun Me If I Divorce My Husband”“My In-Laws Screwed Over My Family and I Don’t Know How to Move Forward”“How Can I Resolve This Friendship Conflict?”What Household Chore Causes the Most Conflict in Your Relationship?What Secrets Have You Kept From A Significant Other?“My Boyfriend Still Hasn’t Told His Kids About Me”“My Mother-In-Law Got Me Stoned on Her Delicious Brownies and Now I’m Cutting Her Off”“Should I Take the Job to Move Closer to My Boyfriend Who Can’t Commit?”“It’s Been Six Months and My Boyfriend Still Hasn’t Introduced Me to His Kids”“My Newly Divorced Friend Needs a Place to Stay”“He’s Asked for Space. Should I Prepare for the Worst?”“Is It Wrong To Date Someone I Emotionally Cheated on My Late Husband With?”“My Friend’s Dog Harasses My Cats When They Come Visit”Miles, 2005 – 2023“My In-Laws Always Choose the Exes Over Me”“She Hasn’t Asked Me to be a Bridesmaid Yet. Is it Too Early to Freak Out?”“Should I Tell His Wife Nothing Ever Happened Between Us?”“My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Over False Cheating Accusations”“Should I Let My Ex Keep Calling Me?”“I Have to Beg My New Husband to Touch Me”“My Friends Aren’t Showing Up for my Wedding”Quickies: “He Suddenly Lost Feelings for Me. Is it a Midlife Crisis?”How Did You Decide Whether to Have Another Baby?“Should I Go to My Grandfather’s Funeral if it Would Cause Family Drama?”“How Can I Overcome My Wife’s Guilt Over Cheating on Me?”“I Regret Signing a Lease with My Partner”“My New Man Wants Me to Give My Dogs to a Shelter”“My Friend’s Husband Hit On Me”“Now That I’m a Mother, I’m Angry About How My Mother Raised Me”“I Had an Affair with my Potential Boss”“My Boyfriend Talked Me Into Getting a Dog and I Hate It”“My Family Stood Me Up at My Own Wedding!”“Is the Tarot Telling Me to Confess My Crush?”“He Didn’t Think I Was Skinny Enough”“Should I Keep My Toxic Friend in My Wedding?”“My Family Thinks I’m Abandoning My Sons”“My Brother Won’t Give Me Back My Late Husband’s Rolex”“My Wife’s Anxiety around Covid is Making Me Feel Like Prisoner”“My Girlfriend Wants Me to Change My Custody Arrangement”“Mom Won’t Come to Wedding If Stepmom is a Bridesmaid”“My Sister’s Mental Health is Damaging Our Relationship”“Is My Partner Interested in the Soccer Mom?”What Are You Reading This Winter?“My Sister Invites Mutual Friends to Our Weekend House and Doesn’t Invite Me!”“Am I Letting My Siblings’ Engagements Ruin My Relationship?”“My Fiancé Will Take My Name When We Marry, And Now His Parents Won’t Come to Our Wedding”“My Boyfriend Still Hasn’t Introduced Me to His Parents and I Don’t Know Why”“My Dad Won’t Tell Me Where My Mom’s Ashes Are”“My Mom Found Religion and Now Can’t Accept I’m a Lesbian”What Are Your Favorite Books You’ve Read This Year?“My Boyfriend of Three Years Won’t Divorce His Ex”“How Can I Be Less Annoying to My Friends?”“My Fiancé Acts Like He Doesn’t Love Me Anymore”“My Family Rejected Me After I Came Out as Trans”“My Mom Won’t Share Details About her Cancer With Me”“My Friend Has Major Hygiene Issues”“Should I Tell My Kids the Truth About their Dad?”“My Daughters Won’t Speak to Me Since I Got Engaged”“My Boyfriend Hasn’t Paid His Taxes in Ten Years”Topic of the Day: “Dating App Red Flags”“Does My Boyfriend Have an Anger Management Problem?”“I’ve Been Banned from my Guy Friend’s Life”“I Feel Guilty for Being Wealthier Than My Friends”“My BFF Dumped Me Over a Birthday Gift”“Should I Say Yes to Babysitting My Niece Once a Week?”“My Ex-Partner Said He’d Report Me to the Police if I Contact Him Again”“Should My Husband and I Move to the US?”Topic of the Day: Do You Say ‘Partner’ to Refer to Your Significant Other?“I’m Afraid My Boyfriend’s Going to Attend My Friend’s Wedding Looking like a Schlub”“Should I Tell My Friend I’m Concerned Her Child is Delayed?”“My Wife Wants to Open Our Marriage, But Only on Her Side”“My Sister Is Giving Her Teenage Sons Bad Advice”“I Have Cold Feet A Month After Proposing”“I RSVPd Too Late. Can I Still Go?”“My Terminally Ill Spouse Refuses to Stop Cheating”“My Husband Lied to Me About What Job He Wanted to Pursue”“My Mother Has Abandoned Our Relationship”“My Son Lives with his Girlfriend and I Don’t Want to Stay in Their Home”“I’m a Afraid of Commitment. Should I Pause My Relationship?”“My Husband Won’t Allow Me to Wear Skirts or Post Selfies”“Should I Cut Off My Bigoted Client?”“My Sister wants 12 Thousand Dollars to Freeze Her Eggs”“My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Include My Son’s Dad in Birthday Festivities”“My Fiance’s Female Friend is Obsessed with Him”“My Husband Keeps Calling Me By His Ex-Wife’s Name”“Can I Get a Second Chance with My Co-Worker?”“My Neighbors Are Sabotaging My Christmas Light Show”“Do I Need a Dog Instead or a Husband?”“Can My Marriage By Saved?”“Menopause Is Affecting My Girlfriend’s Libido”“My Boyfriend Refuses Sell and Buy a House with Me”“I’m Nervous Sparks Will Fly When He Has a Family Dinner with His Wife”“I Make a Lot More Money Than My Boyfriend. Should I Break Up With Him?”“My Future Mother-in-Law is Judgmental of Body Size”“My Husband Is Buying Us a House Before Letting Me See It”“He Said ‘I Love You’ After a Month, But I’m Not Ready to Say it Back Yet”“My Partner Took A Job Working For Her Ex and I’m Jealous”“We’re on a Break. Should I Confront Him about Whether He’s Seeing Anyone?”“My Boyfriend Won’t Quit Working with His Ex!!”“My Girlfriend Wants Me to Choose Between My Kids and Her”“My Boyfriend Says I’m Not Strict Enough with My Kids”“I Want a Baby but My Husband Wants to Wait”“I Have a Boyfriend But I’m Still Obsessed With A Guy I Dated for A Week in College”Morning Quickies: “The Man I’m Seeing is Dating Other People”“There Has Never Been Any Intimacy in My Four-Year Relationship with My Fianc锓My Partner’s Parents Ask Intrusive Questions”“My Husband Wants a Second Baby, But I’m Done after One”“My Daughters Hate Me”“Should I Stay With My Partner For My Son’s Sake?”“My Friend Has Cancer and Doesn’t Want to Talk to Me About It”“My Matron of Honor Hates the Color of Her Dress”“My Close Guy Friend Refuses To Introduce Me to His Girlfriend”“My Boyfriend Treats His Daughter Like She’s His Girlfriend”“My Girlfriend Won’t Let Me Come Over”“My Friend Called Me Out For Taking Medication for My Mental Illness”“We Practically Live Together But He Doesn’t Love Me Yet”“Should I Tell My Boyfriend I Had a Miscarriage?”“We Broke Up Because I Wouldn’t Marry Her”“Am I Demanding Too Much By Asking My Long Distance Boyfriend to Call Me?”“My Girlfriend Says My Anxious Attachment Style Is Too Much”“My Fiancé Messaged His Ex Minutes After We Slept Together”“I Live with My Girlfriend and Her Kids, But They Still Think I’m Just Her ‘Best Friend’”“He Is Obsessed With His Ex-Girlfriend’s Daughter”Drinking with Dear Wendy: Black Irish“My Boyfriend Won’t Help Pay For My Birth Control”“My Sister Is Leaving Town For My Milestone Birthday!”“My Sisters Haven’t Supported My Son Since His Partner Died”“How Will I Know When I’ve Found ‘The One’?”“My Boyfriend is a Sperm Donor and I Can’t Get Over It”“I Have Months To Live. Should I Have an Affair with My First Love While I Still Can?”“My Boyfriend Won’t Give Me Any Affection in Public”“My Parents Gave My Sister 10K For Her Wedding, But Nothing for Mine”‘My Husband Doesn’t Help Me Take Care of His Grandkids”“My Boyfriend Never Makes Time to See Me”“My Mom Doesn’t Think I’m Ready for Marriage”“He Wanted a Baby and I Didn’t. Should I Tell Him I’ve Changed My Mind?”“I Learned My Long-Lost Love Is Dead and I Can’t Accept It”“My Partner Wants to Move Out and Open Our Relationship”Drinking with Dear Wendy: Mr. Black Espresso Martini“My Husband Wished His Female Colleague a Happy Valentine’s Day Before He Wished Me One”Morning Quickies: “Should I Tell His Wife About Our Online Affair?”“Should I Tell My Boyfriend I’m Getting an Abortion or Let Him Think it’s a Miscarriage?”“We Bought Their Plane Tickets. Should We Ask For the Vouchers They Received to Change Flights?”“How Can I Make Him Want a Relationship With Me?”“How Can I Better Show Up For My Grieving Friends?”“My Ex-Wife Has Been Trying to Have a Baby with Me For a Year. Should I Tell Her About My Vasectomy?”“My Ex-Husband Brought His New Girlfriend To Meet My Family”I’ve Fallen In Love with My Girlfriend’s Daughter-in-Law”“My Boyfriend Gave Me a Spa Gift Card And I Blew Up”“Do I Tell Him I Got Him a Christmas Gift?”“I’m Newly Engaged and My Fiancé Won’t Spend Time with Me”“My Online friend Cancelled Our Plans to Meet up in Person”“Why Couldn’t My Husband Love Me?”“I’m Falling In Love with My Dead Sister’s Boyfriend”“My Daughter’s Restraining Order Against My Son is Messing Up the Holidays”“My Boyfriend Won’t Kick His Mother Out of Our Place”“I’ve Gone Broke Buying Gifts But My Boyfriend isn’t Giving Me Anything for Christmas!”My Favorite Reads This Year“My Recently Widowed Boyfriend Has Stopped Saying ‘I Love You’”“My Husband’s Girlfriend Had Twins For Us and My Parents Are Mad”“Where Can I Find a Decent, Much Younger Woman?”“My Husband Suddenly Wants to Start Buying Christmas Gifts for Extended Family”“I’ve Fallen In Love with My (Lesbian) Co-Worker”“My Husband Became Abusive Days After We Married”“I Regret Not Having an Affair When I Had the Chance”“I Resent My Sister’s Pregnancy”“Should I Crash My Boyfriend’s Family’s Thanksgiving?”“My Mother-In-Law Trash Talks Me to Everyone”“My Husband is Choosing Golf Over His Sick Wife”“My Wife is Taking Out Her Anger at Having MS on Me and Our Kids”“I’ve Fallen Out of Love with My Husband!”“My Girlfriend’s Son Won’t Let Her Spend the Holidays With Me!”“Should I Tell My Boyfriend That My Friend is Trans?”“How Should I Approach Women I Want to Date?”“My Girlfriend is a Little Dumb. Should I Dump Her?”Women Discuss: Being Forty-Something“I Ghosted Her After Five Years and Now I Want Her Back”“He Disinvited Me To Meet His Parents and Took a Female Friend Instead”“Should I End My Long Relationship For an Office Crush?”Drinking with Dear Wendy: Bourbon and Ginger“Should I Date My Sperm Donor?”“My Daughter Didn’t Get Photos Of Us at Her Wedding and I’m Devastated”“My Parents Crash With Us For Months While They Rent Out Their Condo”“My Friend is Getting Married Just to Have a Bachelor Party”“My Boyfriend Isn’t in a Hurry to Have Kids and It Makes Me Cry Nearly Every Day”“Should I Tell My Family My Husband and I Have a Boyfriend?”“My Family Wants Me to Get Back with My Husband For Our Kids’ Sake”“Is My Reputation Damaged Forever?”Drinking with Dear Wendy: Pimm’s Cup“My Girlfriend is Grieving Her Dead Male Co-Worker Like She Was In Love With Him”“My Boyfriend Died. What Should I Do With My Engagement Ring?”“How Can I Ask How He’s Feeling?”“My Husband Friended His Ex on Facebook and I Went Ballistic”Topic of the Day: Wedding Traditions That Need to Go“My Mother Left Her Diamond Ring to My Nephew Instead of to Me”“Should I Break Up With my Boyfriend Because I Don’t Like His Daughter?”“It’s Been Six Months and He Won’t introduce Me To Anyone”“My Boyfriend’s Mother Doesn’t Like Me Because I’m a Single Mom” Posts pagination 1 2 3 4 … 6 Next Page
“My Ex-Wife Has Been Trying to Have a Baby with Me For a Year. Should I Tell Her About My Vasectomy?”
